John McIlwain

I offer both individual and group integration sessions, where I provide an opportunity for you to discuss your experiences and what you are learning with someone who is open to your experiences, whatever they are, and who is caring and experienced in this area. This supports you as you process the thoughts and feelings that have come up since the ceremony, including difficult reactions, such as anxiety or self-judgment.

Each integrative session is begun with an invitation for you to talk briefly about whatever is on your mind. The purpose is to ensure that it is your experience rather than mine that will direct the session. My role is to listen, and to create and hold a safe space for the discussion, and to encourage you to trust your own inner healing intelligence. Occasionally, when beneficial, I may share my own experiences Keep in mind the fact that you are the source of your own healing. 

On my website you’ll see more details of the integration process and ways you might support yourself. I work with men and women, individually and in small groups, and work both in person and online. Rates are flexible in order to make this process affordable to all.